Friday 21 August 2015

The JOY of a new academic year

Summer is abuzz with bumble bees and happy plans as we prepare for the new academic year!

But not all is bright and sunny for the young people of our nation. Over lunch today I was reading some seriously  deflating data from the Good Childhood Report.

https://www.childrenssociety.org.uk/sites/default/files/TheGoodChildhoodReport2015.pdf

The headline was 'School is sad for English Children'. I immediately became glum on reading that headline but it got worse.

The report carried out in collaboration wtih the University of York found:
1.  Children in England were more dissatisfied with their school experience than those in 11 other countries including Uganda, Ethiopia and Algeria.
2. The report suggested 33% of children in England have been bullied in the past month
3. 50% of children felt excluded felt excluded.

And then closer to home for the university sector the study finds children become unhappier as they reach their teenage years.

Saint Francis Xavier and the Jesuits gave us the proverbial truism  “Give me the child until he is seven and I'll give you the man” which we know time and time again to be true through the wisdom of years spent with children growing into adults.

Life, habit and character formation happens in those precious early years and for those of us who work with young people we meet humans nearly fully formed to be the person they are going to be.

Chaplaincy along with a range of services within universities and together with those inspirational educators (who take raw diamonds and polish them to help them shine) offer all sorts of TLC (Tender Loving Care) on campus.

Offering a sense of meaning, purpose, valuing the lives and interests of young people, sharing humour and jokes, relaxing and having fun together over games and food, faith and spirituality formation all feed young people's well of happiness and their God given right to feel good about themselves and others.

Joy is an underused word in English but many cultures naturally ooze joy. For our young people coming to University this year may JOY and a deep abiding happiness of heart and spirit be abuzz in all we do and say as we welcome them on campus.

JOY and Bible quotes

"So that I may come to you with joy, by God’s will, and in your company be refreshed." Romans 15:32

Some ideas to share JOY on campus!!

What I LOVE about these simple 'JOY makers' are that even if a few people are doing them, others see it and they smile and that is automatically a joy filled moment for a person.

1. start a 'BIG SING' group that can be pop up -any time any where on campus. You can start with that simple gospel song: 'I've got the joy, joy, joy, joy down in my heart.. WHERE? down in my heart WHERE? down in my heart...'



2. Charity shops sell really cheap good quality board games and toys that can be so much fun for students and staff to play with on campus. Pop up in cafes and places around campus that are easy and visable. I've got a bunch of yo-yo's, frisbees, bubble mix, balloons that create happy fun moments and they're cheap cheap cheap!




3. A.R.K. Acts of Random Kindness always works a treat to create joy filled moments. Same mantra 'any time any where with anyone' and we all know free sweets goes a long way creating a happy moment :)



Tuesday 12 May 2015

De-stress

Chaplains and chaplaincy are beautifully placed within the structures of University life to offer a multiplicity of de-stress ideas and activities for students and staff during this period of study, revision and exams

1. Pitch a 'pop up' chaplaincy in a suitable space around campus.

It could be in a green space, in the S.U. building (if you are lucky enough to have one!), in an accessible room or the library.


 


2. Create an eyecatching poster

Student and well being services will love you for offering to help de-stress students. Send your poster to one and all across campus and have a poster campaign.

 


3. offer simple and easy games, activities and freebies

I'm a hunter and gatherer from way back - always on the hunt for a bargain, freebies, something I can make from nothing and so in my chaplaincy bag of tricks when it comes to this time of the year I have lots of things to give away.

Charity shops are great for games and bits and bobs.

Us crafty types can have a field day making simple give aways - like these sweet study aid lavender bags.



4. Enjoy the fun and have a laugh with students!

Since pitching the pop up chaplaincy in Drill Hall Library (Europe's longest library!) I have had more fun than I have had for a long time, and the students too have been laughing, bantering, meeting new people, giving a yoyo a go, playing games and simply relaxing and de-stressing for a minute or two.

It has been one of the best things I have offered on campus, give it a go!


 
 
 

 

Sunday 15 March 2015

Creating community

After nearly 2 decades in educational chaplaincy I am convinced that at the heart of chaplaincy is the creation of community.

Community simply means 'with' 'unity'.

Our post-secular post-modern university contexts can be colourful yet confusing places of incohesive diversity.  Diversity is what life is all about. Yet in the heady mix of otherness we need to find 'our tribe', people we can share some meaningful union with. Clusters and gatherings of folks we can have some shared mutuality of interests, beliefs, passions, hopes, dreams and spirituality.

Isolated students are away from family, home, pets, cultures, rituals, food, places and their customs of meaning and purpose. They are thrown together in an academic environment at a significant time of their lives in terms of human formation and are meant to make 'some sort of meaning' out of their undergraduate years.

Who are the wise elders to help form and shape this significant time of students lives and how do students do this as they are a part of a community of learning?

Chaplains and chaplaincy have unique freedoms and indeed I would say are vocationally called to literally create meaningful community and communities for our students.

Robert Banks in "Paul's idea of Community"  (https://www.ivpress.com/cgi-ivpress/author.pl/author_id=457) has a simple recipe for creating community.

The ingredients are: a place, some time, sharing stories and good food.

This simple recipe can be stirred, mixed and dolloped with lashings of love around our university campuses.

Here are a few ways community has and is being created at the Medway campus of the universities of Greenwich, Kent and Canterbury Christ Church.

free lunch exploring ideas of food and Harvest
free lunch exploring Christianity
free lunch exploring the Human Universe
students from the 3 universities sharing lunch, personal experiences, ideas, wisdom, humour!
A.R.K. Act of Random Kindness ~ Pancake Tuesday (note the student spelling of 'chaplain')
Pancake Tuesday
Freshers free picnic
Freshers free picnic one campus, 3 universities and students getting to know each other